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Hey girlfriend,
Are you in a confusing dating situation and want to get your
love life straightened out?
Are you sick of settling for less than you deserve in the dating
world?
Do you want to know how to meet a good guy and have a happy,
healthy, fulfilling relationship?
If you’re nodding your head “yes,” then this email is for
you!
My name is Paige Parker. I’m a dating coach and author of the
bestselling guide to relationships, “Dating Without Drama.”
If you’re like most women on the dating scene, you probably
spend a good deal of time wondering,”What are men THINKING?!?”
That’s why I’m sharing my Top 10 Dating and Relationship
Secrets with you today.
In this email, you’ll find a summary of each of these crucial
must-learn secrets, covering topics from calling to commitment,
first dates to freak-outs, men’s mixed signals to your self esteem.
So if you’re ready to learn how to understand men and finally get
the drama-free love life you’ve always wanted, read on!
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Paige Parker’s Top 10 Dating & Relationship Secrets
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DATING SECRET #1:
You’re not imagining it: Men DO have a “Calling Game.”
You meet a great guy and immediately you sense a spark. You can tell
he feels it too. He asks for you number says he’ll call, but then
days pass and…NOTHING.
What’s the deal?
In Chapter 4 of “Dating Without Drama,” you’ll learn how to decode
this game and discover exactly how YOU can send the right signals
to ensure that the guy you’re really into contacts you right away.
DATING SECRET #2:
A few weeks into a new relationship, MOST men will freak out
and pull away. This does NOT mean it’s over… IF you handle the
situation correctly.
When you first start dating a new man, life can feel like one of
those montage scenes in a romantic movie where you’re running all
over town together night and day, hand-in-hand, all set to the song
“I’ll stop the world and melt with you…”
You’re inseparable. You’re smitten. You can’t seem to get enough of
each other.
So naturally, you are completely thrown for a loop when, out of the
clear blue, Mr. Wonderful just drops off the face of the earth.
There couldn’t possibly be a good explanation why he would do this,
could there?
Believe it or not, there IS. And it’s not necessarily bad at all.
In fact, you might be pleasantly surprised when you learn what’s
going on in his head.
I’ll explain exactly what IS going on in his head, as well as give
you step-by-step instructions on how to handle yourself during this
confusing and difficult time to ensure that your man comes back to
you WILLINGLY and ON HIS OWN… this time ready to make a solid
commitment to you!
It’s all in Chapter 11 of “Dating Without Drama.”
DATING SECRET #3:
Men really DO love “The Chase.”
We are modern, independent, self-assured women. We don’t want to
play games; especially not to be phony or have to act differently
in order to meet and develop a relationship with a man. And I would
never advise you to do that.
But as much as we’ve all evolved in the realm of gender equality in
the workplace, the truth is that the biological divide between men
and women in relationships is still as wide as ever. If we ignore
our differences, we’re setting ourselves up for major dating
disappointment.
The good news is that there’s a huge difference between game playing
and DATING SMART.
And I’m going to teach you exactly how to date smart without playing
games.
To learn why a man loves to be the pursuer at the beginning of a
relationship – and how to let him do it while still staying true to
your modern self – you’ll definitely want to check out Chapter 1 of
my book.
DATING SECRET #4:
You really DON’T want a “perfect” man.
It’s not fair.
As little girls we’re raised on fairy tales and told that “someday
your prince will come.”
With all the knights-in-shining armor and happily-ever-afters, we’re
set up to have unrealistic expectations of what love really should
look like.
So when we meet someone who truly seems to be “Mr. Perfect,” we get
all wrapped up in the fantasy and start fast-forwarding our emotions
before we have a chance to really get to know the guy.
Of course it’s human nature to get swept up in the whirlwind of a
new romance, especially in the beginning. And you do deserve to enjoy
that exciting time.
BUT getting too invested in a relationship before you have the chance
to REALLY get to know this person is dangerous.
I’ll explain exactly why – and reveal the two different chemical/
biological stages of love that drive our decisions (and HIS) – in
Chapter 11.
You won’t want to get seriously involved with someone until you read it!
DATING SECRET #5:
Women aren’t the ONLY ones with “emotional baggage.”
Yep, that’s right. Most men have their own set of luggage – filled
with pain and memories of past relationships – just like we do.
So what do you do if you get involved with a great guy… SO great,
in fact, that his ex-girlfriend doesn’t want to get out of the
picture? And what if his unfinished emotional business is getting
in the way of you two moving forward as a couple?
Do you break it off? Threaten the ex? Issue ultimatums? Throw a
tantrum?
In a sticky situation like this, there’s only ONE thing you can -
and should – do if you want to win over your man for good (and kick
his emotional baggage to the curb). I’ll tell you all about how
to handle dramatic situations in chapters 14 & 15 of “Dating Without
Drama.”
DATING SECRET #6:
There are 5 simple ways to know whether a man is capable of
commitment… all without having to actually ASK (and risk scaring
him off!).
I get hundreds of emails from women every day, and some of the most
frequently asked questions are:
- “How can I know whether my guy will commit?
- “When will he be ready to take our relationship to the next level?”
- “Does he think I’m ‘the one’ or is this just a fling to him?”
- “Should I ask him where our relationship is going?”
Ironically, one of the most common comments I hear from men is that
nothing freaks them out faster than when a woman says, “we need to
talk,” and then proceeds to inquire about the status of their
relationship.
So you desperately feel the need to define your status, but your
guy isn’t talking. Does that just leave you stuck in the dark?
Not if you learn my DATING SECRET #6.
You see, WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING IT, your man is dropping clues EVERY
DAY as to his ability and level of desire to be in a committed relationship.
My simple 5-question quiz will help reveal his true feelings on this very
important matter. You’ll find it in Chapter 7 of “Dating Without Drama.”
DATING SECRET #7:
Technology can intensify dating jealousy.
Thank goodness for the Internet.
Without it, we wouldn’t have online dating sites, email, or the
connection that comes from social networking.
But with this blessing also comes a very sneaky curse: The Internet
gives us the ability to know a little TOO much about one another.
This omniscient power that the Internet gives us (to check out
potential mates on Facebook or MySpace; to have constant access
via email and Twitter) can be a dangerous thing, triggering all
kinds of unpleasant feelings (insecurity, jealousy, neediness,
competitiveness, just to name a few) and can sabotage a new
relationship before it even has a chance to take root.
In “Dating Without Drama” I’ll show you how to successfully navigate
the tricky waters of dating in the information age without
letting jealousy or insecurity get the best of you.
DATING SECRET #8:
It pays to be picky.
When you’re on the dating scene, of course it helps to be open-minded.
For example, women who claim to have a “type” and dismiss any man
who doesn’t automatically fit the bill are limiting their potential
to find true love.
But still… a girl’s still gotta have standards.
In Chapter 15 I’ll define the most crucial Dating Deal Breakers (non-
negotiable qualities, attitudes or behaviors a man possesses that make it
impossible to have a healthy relationship with him) and teach you
how to spot – and avoid – them.
DATING SECRET #9:
There’s only ONE way to feel secure in a relationship.
HINT: It has nothing to do with your man.
Most of us spend the majority of our dating lives wondering what a
guy is thinking, guessing at his feelings, hoping he’ll call when he
says he will, and trying to analyze his every action.
This confusion and guesswork can leave us feeling unsteady and
uncertain of ourselves. Looking for reassurance, we may find
ourselves clinging to our man, hoping that he will make us feel
secure in the relationship – and in ourselves.
This is a DEADLY dating mistake.
Find out exactly how to get the confidence you crave – and the
relationship security you seek – in Chapter 2 of “Dating Without
Drama.”
If you are looking to build your relationship on a solid foundation,
this chapter gives you the blueprint.
DATING SECRET #10:
Men love women who Date Without Drama.
The dating and relationship secrets I teach are tried and true.
Not only do I have proof in the form of countless success stories
from readers who have tried my techniques and improved their self-
esteem, met the men of their dreams, and even gotten engaged and
married…
…BUT I also have received significant feedback from real men who tell
me that women who live by the Dating Without Drama way are the kind
of women they want to go out with, commit to, and marry!
Here’s just one email I received from a real man:
| “Dear Paige,
I’m a guy. One day I checked my email and I see an ad on the
above banner [for 'Dating Withtout Drama'].
My first thought was ‘oh I gotta see this’ thinking it was
intended to teach women how to manipulate men or something like that …
I read it and found I WAS TOTALLY WRONG!
I instead want to say THANK YOU for helping girls be more
reasonable in the dating world, teaching them how to respect
themselves, and also how not to be ‘all about’ themselves
making them unapproachable.
I WOULD TOTALLY DATE A GIRL WHO LIVES BY WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN TEACHING – IT’S VERY ATTRACTIVE STUFF!
Keep it up – YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.
Sean
San Francisco, CA” |
If you’re ready to learn the tried-and-true dating secrets that
will make you irresistible to men (and are guaranteed to have
you feeling pretty darn good about your fabulous self), download
your copy of “Dating Without Drama” today.
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Have a drama-free day!
Your friend,
Paige Parker
Author, “Dating Without Drama”
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